Don’t judge a book by its cover…
Have you guys ever experience, when there is someone who always underestimate your capability or credibility in doing things? Or probably judge you from the way you dressing up, speaking, or from the way you carry yourself out? Hmmm “judgment” that is the word that one of my friends, question herself. “If you judge people, you have no time to love them…” What do you guys think?? Well, for me I think it depends on a person in how to interpret this principal… Some people may agree and some people may not. However, for me it is possible to judge a person and at the same time love him or her. Love itself is very subjective. What do you mean by love? It is too broad to interpret the meaning of love. My friend says love is when you care about someone and you feel hurt when that person harms you badly while my other friend says love is emotion that indescribable. And, the dictionary.com stated a few meaning of love – a profoundly tender, passionate affection of another person, a feeling warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for parent, child, or friend, affectionate concern for the well-being of others, and so on. Hence, it is shows that Love has very broad in its meaning. In other words, we can put it as Love is just indescribable… 
Being in love is such a wonderful experience for a person. Having someone to love is also another great moment for an individual. It is not wrong to judge a person or at the same time to love him or her. This is because; with judgment then only you know what may come next. As a normal person, it is okay to have a judgmental behavior in you. However, sometimes you need to be careful when you try to put your conclusion on that person or things because remember, “Don’t judge a book by its cover”… The ugly book that you have doesn’t portray the story inside it. Hence, open the book, read it, and understands the story behind it before u judge… In life, we are actually using a concept of that quote. It just that sometimes, people can not accept the way other people are. They want to lead everything. They compete to each other. They try to point mistakes to other people instead of point it out to themselves. Some people always said, “Learn from the mistakes”. Well, not all of us here agree that we can learn from the mistakes. We just say it out to ourselves, but when it comes to other people mistakes, what did we do? Point out to them? Angry at them? Tell them stupid indirectly? And so on.
What do you feel when a person says stupid at you indirectly? Are you mad or you can accept it because you are stupid? Again, the answer is depends on individual him/herself. But for me, no one is stupid in this world and a “stupid” is a harsh way in telling someone that they are lack of something. You can tell a person nicely if he or she does not know how to solve things. You can guide them, teach them or illustrate in bringing that person to the right track. A person, who calls another person stupid, is the more stupid compare to the other person. If you know certain things and the other person does not know, is that hard for you to teach or guide them to do the right thing? Since, you are so smart, I think you will know how to figure out how to helping others right?
So, guys seat back and try to think what have you done or how did you treat other people all this while. Do you think what you did was right? Well…like I said the answer will always in you..no one will know because the only person that can change is you..not me, him , her, or anyone that you always blame on to..So..Think it, I am sure you will know what you should do..!!:)
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