Don’t judge a book by its cover…

Have you guys ever experience, when there is someone who always underestimate your capability or credibility in doing things? Or probably judge you from the way you dressing up, speaking, or from the way you carry yourself out? Hmmm “judgment” that is the word that one of my friends, question herself. “If you judge people, you have no time to love them…” What do you guys think?? Well, for me I think it depends on a person in how to interpret this principal… Some people may agree and some people may not. However, for me it is possible to judge a person and at the same time love him or her. Love itself is very subjective. What do you mean by love? It is too broad to interpret the meaning of love. My friend says love is when you care about someone and you feel hurt when that person harms you badly while my other friend says love is emotion that indescribable. And, the dictionary.com stated a few meaning of love – a profoundly tender, passionate affection of another person, a feeling warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for parent, child, or friend, affectionate concern for the well-being of others, and so on. Hence, it is shows that Love has very broad in its meaning. In other words, we can put it as Love is just indescribable…

Being in love is such a wonderful experience for a person. Having someone to love is also another great moment for an individual. It is not wrong to judge a person or at the same time to love him or her. This is because; with judgment then only you know what may come next. As a normal person, it is okay to have a judgmental behavior in you. However, sometimes you need to be careful when you try to put your conclusion on that person or things because remember, “Don’t judge a book by its cover”… The ugly book that you have doesn’t portray the story inside it. Hence, open the book, read it, and understands the story behind it before u judge… In life, we are actually using a concept of that quote. It just that sometimes, people can not accept the way other people are. They want to lead everything. They compete to each other. They try to point mistakes to other people instead of point it out to themselves. Some people always said, “Learn from the mistakes”. Well, not all of us here agree that we can learn from the mistakes. We just say it out to ourselves, but when it comes to other people mistakes, what did we do? Point out to them? Angry at them? Tell them stupid indirectly? And so on.

What do you feel when a person says stupid at you indirectly? Are you mad or you can accept it because you are stupid? Again, the answer is depends on individual him/herself. But for me, no one is stupid in this world and a “stupid” is a harsh way in telling someone that they are lack of something. You can tell a person nicely if he or she does not know how to solve things. You can guide them, teach them or illustrate in bringing that person to the right track. A person, who calls another person stupid, is the more stupid compare to the other person. If you know certain things and the other person does not know, is that hard for you to teach or guide them to do the right thing? Since, you are so smart, I think you will know how to figure out how to helping others right?

So, guys seat back and try to think what have you done or how did you treat other people all this while. Do you think what you did was right? Well…like I said the answer will always in you..no one will know because the only person that can change is you..not me, him , her, or anyone that you always blame on to..So..Think it, I am sure you will know what you should do..!!:)

I’m back!!!

Hi everyone!!! It has been a while I never write anything in this blog or open this blog thingy site. Probably years also… Anyway, so many things happened within this couple of years. My friend, Farin (heheh saje nak enter-frame your name) keep on asking me to write something in my blog when I felt bored or something. Well, it is not that I don’t have much time to write, it just that the laziness that keep on bugging me to write anything that I wanted to.

Anyway, life been pretty hectic at first, but lately it turned pretty good even though there are always things that keep on messing with my head. I always try not to think everything so seriously and still learning how to manage and prioritize everything in my life, but man it is not that easy as words can describe. I’m sure each one of us has so many things and plan in life, but to make things happen as what we plan is not as easy as we thought. Hard work, great determination and tawakal are always be the key to success—or probably MY key to success. Hehhehe why I always like to talk something about life?? Hmmm I don’t know. Maybe because I’m just such a complicated person.

Well, actually we just got back from lunch at the Wild Olive and walked along the sea side. We are actually having a summer vacation!!:) And, this is our fourth day here in Panama City, Florida. We planned to stay here for about a week. The beach or what they call as the Rosemary Beach is so beautiful. It’s reminded me to the Redang beach. The green blue beach, the clear white sand, and the bright hot sun that keep on smiling to us tanned our skin naturally. Even the truth is we already tanned compare to the mat salleh here la kan..it just that we become darker when we are here..ehehhe

Life in Florida it just so different compare to Atlanta. People in here are more relax. Well, I guessed because most of them are having a vacation instead of coming here to work. In addition, the place especially the mall is pretty far from where we live..is about 10 miles (in km tak pasti la berapa eh—please calculate sendiri okayJ) from our cottage… and the mall is just “okay” compare to what we have in Atlanta. I like most of the houses here. The designs are so cozy, relaxing, and unique. I probably will post some of the pictures for you all later J

Hmmm…now I am blank..doesn’t really know what to write..will continue soon when I have something to write okay..;) Chao!! Asta luego all!! J

Life as a human - part III

Have you ever cross in your mind thinking that” This is not
the thing that you are not suppose to do! And, it would be better if you can do
something that makes yourself better? Or Happier? Should you stop now or should
you just continue it later or …. should you just NOT doing it at all??"
Have you ever face this kind of situation before? Maybe yes and maybe not..

I think this is just one of the life cycles of being a human who are living in
this world. As a human, we have so many desire, anticipations, curiosities, and
etc. Everyone may think that what they are doing is the right thing to do, and
the other one also may think that what they are doing is better than the other
one just did, but do we really know which one is the best? Do we really analyze
things before we really make a decision upon it? Do we really consider what is
the possibilities that might happen when we doing that thing? And…. do we
really know that the fire is really hot until we test it? And you know
what???That is how actually people are dealing with one another competing in
grabbing their dream….

We have a dream..
We analyze the dream…
We illustrate the dream..
We plan how to achieve the dream…
We put our self to reach out for the dream…
Commit, Push, push and push our self into it…
Booommm!!! Did we achieve it?

You know what? The answer is in you…only you who’s going to know what the
answer is..So, what r u waitin’ for?? Plan and start doing it!!:D

Life as a human part II….

I just realized that being a real human is soo hard..so many things that u need to plan in your life..without all the planning, u’re not gonna know what’s going to happen with your life..

Sometimes I’ve just wondering what I really want in this time of life?? Happiness?? Sadness?? Failed?? Success?? I’m sure that everyone in this world really wish that they’re gonna be success one day, in a way that they have a lot of money maybe, or a big happy family or maybe a successful career..and i’m sure that all of us always wish and hope that we really gonna reach that high hope in our life..

But, have we ever realize that in order to grab that huge achievements we need sacrifice soo many things in life.. love, time & energy..for me, thats three really big things that we need to take an account!Its hurt and sad but if we never try it, I’m sure that we’re not gonna taste how it feel right? So, do we need to put ourself on fire and feel how is the pain really are?? The answer..?? it’s only in u…no one’s gonna answer it for you or even me..because its only you, yourself who’s going to feel it how it suppose to be felt…

Life…sometimes we are on the top and sometimes we are at the bottom of the world..we might fall down but sometimes we may climb up back just to taste how it feel to be on the top..and sometimes we even forget that we are already on the top…forget?? people tend to forget what they had did and accomplished in their life…they seems never satisfy about their life…

and…..will be cont…

Starting of life…

November, 14 2007

Just get to know in how to do a blog is the same as just get to know the real world environment as a human being..Its tough, fun, unpredictable, dangerous, curious, enjoyable, wonderful and etc etc.. Having life is priceless. We can’t buy our life or we can’t even sell it.. so, life is just a static valuable thing in individual’s body, mind and soul…without life we can’t even breath and we can’t even see the world..That’s how life is so precious to me..

Do i love my life?? The answer is always in my hand. I bet I’m the only person who knows the answer of that question. huh! yeah of course  i  love my life! its full of challenges and excitement that no one can ever feel or even dream it..hehe

Life..how should i share my life with everyone? should i write it? sing it? or should i put my mouth and my hands on the numb mode so that i won’t share it with anyone in the whole wide world…hoh??man!!i don’t even know how to go on with this blogging thing..Actually,i don’t even have any ideas how to write it?? or maybe i just don’t feel like write it yet..

So, guys i better stop it here before the shit of the crab come out and ruin your life..Check out for another topic later!!

Live Life to the Fullest!!